hows it going? f off 2020.
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| slimsim |  | ... | 25-11-2020 @ 15:11 |
My asshole is not watertight. Member 2926, 6050 posts SQ 217.5, BP 107.5, DL 225550.0 kgs @ 86kgs UnEq | danbaseley said: I'm okay work and housing wise. I messaged her today, in terms of what is happening with her and the kids over the next year. Obviously, I would like to be reasonably close to them, so I am not travelling hours to see them. Her response was "It's not up to me to tell you what to do with your life. You know how I feel about you having the boys right now and in the next year, or so. I'm not going to comment on how I may feel in the future". Just remember - she hit me, twice, in the last year. I never so much as laid a finger on her. But, she has convinced herself I am the issue. A mate of mine who is a clinical psychologist, said that she has a classic narcissistic view of herself: she can never view herself as the antagonist - only the victim, or hero. So, she does mental gymnastics - and extols her continual control freakery - to convince herself, that I am a bad person: and she is beyond reproach. Which is somewhat challenging for me. To say the least. Personally, from now on I would only contact her through traceable means and would go as far as to screenshot EVERYTHING she says and keep it in a separate folder on your phone/laptop. Let her hang herself with her unreasonable behaviour. | ||
| WILLSAN | | ... | 25-11-2020 @ 15:15 |
 Trump will get another four years Member 126, 16707 posts SQ 160, BP 110, DL 225495.0 kgs @ 75kgs UnEq | danbaseley said:You're right Billy. I need to dust myself, and stand tall - again. hard times bro. stay strong. | ||
| danbaseley |  | ... | 25-11-2020 @ 15:24 |
 A member for 10 years and still no mouldy peanuts Member 1252, 4479 posts SQ 160, BP 110, DL 215485.0 kgs @ 98kgs UnEq | slimsim said: Personally, from now on I would only contact her through traceable means and would go as far as to screenshot EVERYTHING she says and keep it in a separate folder on your phone/laptop. Let her hang herself with her unreasonable behaviour. I think that you are on to something here. Thanks for the advice and support chaps. | ||
| EDCLARKE | | ... | 25-11-2020 @ 19:34 |
 not particularly well educated Member 85, 10991 posts SQ 170, BP 130, DL 260560.0 kgs @ 90kgs UnEq | slimsim said: Personally, from now on I would only contact her through traceable means and would go as far as to screenshot EVERYTHING she says and keep it in a separate folder on your phone/laptop. Let her hang herself with her unreasonable behaviour. this is excellent advice ! Dan that sounds absolutely f**king awful i hope you find a way through it that isn't too acrimonious . | ||
| dannyboy73 | | ... | 25-11-2020 @ 19:59 |
Mask it or Casket !! Member 4600, 8166 posts SQ 240, BP 162.5, DL 255657.5 kgs @ 90.5kgs UnEq | Do that Dan She sounds like a total c..t. danbaseley said: I need to dust myself, and stand tall - again. | ||