Who's in the wrong? Women!
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| Pompy |  | Who's in the wrong? Women! | 04-02-2011 @ 09:00 |
 My opinions have run their course Member 694, 3112 posts | Okay so looks like the mrs is planning her hen do on the 10th or 17th or April I have put name down (and paid for) u90 southern qualifiers on 10th.... she has said for a while (before I booked it) ... 'what if something comes up'.... where i have said 'it has, the comp'...... but did she know about wanting her hen do that weekend prior to me booking the comp? who knows.... she said she would like it on the 10th and then i could have my stag do on the 17th... as there aren't many spare weekends if any before the wedding.... but i said id rather her have hers on the 17th and i would rather do the comp than have a stag do if thats the case, im not overly bothered. (its got to be a sunday to suit my guests), but i could just go for a beer one night anyway doesnt have to be an all day thing furthermore, she said 'well you are doing the other one too'... meaning 'yorkshires strongest man'..... but i didnt realise we were f**king counting!!! so basically.... am i being a t**t or should i call the wedding off or what? i know there'll be other comps, but next year i will only be SM training from around late Jan at best due to work, so will not be in the shape I feel I am getting in this year. as it stands i have told her to just do whatever if its the 10th so be it even more pissed off today as i found out i failed first uni exam today only got 30% (needed 40% FTW) | ||
| strange1 | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:09 |
 Member 535, 618 posts SQ 267.5, BP 140, DL 275682.5 kgs @ 114kgs UnEq | think she is being a tad unreasonable there mate you cant move the comp but she can move the hen do but you could pull the duty card that weekend, id swap a duty for that weekend so i was doing friday/sunday and then there is no point in going up the line and you go the saterday for the comp | ||
| Pompy | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:10 |
My opinions have run their course Member 694, 3112 posts | Nice idea mate but I don't do duties! | ||
| Boar | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:12 |
 Nothing left in the tank. Member 5, 25568 posts Administrator | its just a hen night ...she should change IMO ...if she had booked it befor then fairynuff .. | ||
| adamkeep | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:16 |
 a dork Member 1023, 846 posts | It's 1 strongman contest vs. having something she can bring up against you for the rest of your marraige. Cut the contest and go to another qual some other time. Do it for your happiness, do it for her, and do it because this sport isn't going to get you anywhere (unless you are the top 1%). Good luck with it dude, but your lady is way more important than a f**king strongman contest. | ||
| PAGAN | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:16 |
 I took about £4 out of Sooty's bottom Member 685, 8719 posts SQ 225, BP 150, DL 290665.0 kgs @ 93kgs UnEq | Your clearly a Nazi! There you go Carl , lets get this one over quickly...  | ||
| baldy | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:18 |
 aka The Scorer Member 1195, 861 posts SQ 165, BP 110, DL 232.5507.5 kgs @ 98kgs UnEq | I am totally confused are you going to go on her hen night? Aren't you married already? | ||
| moz | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:18 |
 Feasting on humble pie. Member 51, 1692 posts SQ 227.5, BP 185, DL 272.5685.0 kgs @ 90.4kgs UnEq | FFS Pompey I presume you wonna be with this women forever (you are getting married) and plan on doing this once? Bite the bullet, make her happy! If you were in with a chance of winning and qualifying for bigger things I might have said something different but there loads of comps knocking about. | ||
| Pompy | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:18 |
My opinions have run their course Member 694, 3112 posts | Cheers for the comments lads.... I am in two minds. I did say to her its her hen night its more important.... but, if its just a case of her having it on the 17th and it doesnt matter then why not suit everyone? | ||
| Pompy | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:19 |
My opinions have run their course Member 694, 3112 posts | PAGAN said:Your clearly a Nazi! There you go Carl , lets get this one over quickly... lol dick | ||
| tz1127 | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:19 |
 Member 1419, 2281 posts SQ 175, BP 105, DL 240520.0 kgs @ 82kgs UnEq | With your geeky looks I thought you were still a virgin. Congrats and forget about the comps, you can compete many many times in your lifetime but theres only this one wedding (well, hopefully). Don't lose track of whats important (wedding) and whats not (a hobby). | ||
| moz | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:20 |
Feasting on humble pie. Member 51, 1692 posts SQ 227.5, BP 185, DL 272.5685.0 kgs @ 90.4kgs UnEq | adamkeep said:It's 1 strongman contest vs. having something she can bring up against you for the rest of your marraige. Cut the contest and go to another qual some other time. Do it for your happiness, do it for her, and do it because this sport isn't going to get you anywhere (unless you are the top 1%). Good luck with it dude, but your lady is way more important than a f**king strongman contest. Beat me to it. X2, what Adam said. | ||
| Pompy | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:20 |
My opinions have run their course Member 694, 3112 posts | Baldy, no not married yet mate... and i have to look after my daughter... i wouldnt want to get a sitter all day/night... remember the comp is in portsmouth and i live in doncaster moz, i am in with a good chance of qualifying!  | ||
| Boar | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:20 |
Nothing left in the tank. Member 5, 25568 posts Administrator | i can agree that a whole marrage and life with the woman you love is much more important than 1 competition .... but this is somthing that can be easily avoided , you can both still do your stuff ..it just a girls night out this is why we got wed at 11am on a sat morning for 50 quid with no-one there ... romance isnt dead !! | ||
| Pompy | | ... | 04-02-2011 @ 09:21 |
My opinions have run their course Member 694, 3112 posts | tz1127 said:With your geeky looks I thought you were still a virgin. Congrats and forget about the comps, you can compete many many times in your lifetime but theres only this one wedding (well, hopefully). Don't lose track of whats important (wedding) and whats not (a hobby). very good points apart from the geeky thing | ||