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KevC86Icon...21-12-2020 @ 18:06 
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Rick said:
This is exactly equivalent to, in the Blitz, saying "if an adult wants to leave his curtains open and his lights on, he can take his own risks and that's none of anybody else's business". The potential harms are not limited to the initial actors. People have neighbours.



The trouble is the handshaking analogy isn't endangering anyone who doesn't consent to it.

I shake hands with "x".
I return home and socially distance from my neighbours as well as doing everything i can to minimise contact with others.
My actions have not meaningfully increased the risk to anyone other than my own and "x's" households.

As an adult i feel i am within my remit to accept whatever risks i deem reasonable for me and my household.

Similarly if i invite someone in to my house/gym/garden against the rules this Christmas.
They have the intelligence and freedom of thought to decide if they accept that invitation.
LessThanLukeIcon...21-12-2020 @ 18:13 
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Rick said:
This is exactly equivalent to, in the Blitz, saying "if an adult wants to leave his curtains open and his lights on, he can take his own risks and that's none of anybody else's business". The potential harms are not limited to the initial actors. People have neighbours.


Not exactly equivalent at all really due to what Kev said.
LessThanLukeIcon...21-12-2020 @ 18:14 
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WILLSAN said:
in my view, everyone should make their own call for the reasons above. ill wear a mask and socially distance but if two consenting adults want to shake hands that none of my business. the government should have zero say in this.


We mostly agree then tbh.
I just reserve the right to think people are idiots if they do do certain things hah.
RickIcon...21-12-2020 @ 18:55 
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KevC86 said:
The trouble is the handshaking analogy isn't endangering anyone who doesn't consent to it.
I shake hands with "x".
I return home and socially distance from my neighbours as well as doing everything i can to minimise contact with others.


Your first sentence and your second sentence seen to me to be describing one person as two implausibly different people.


My actions have not meaningfully increased the risk to anyone other than my own and "x's" households.


And everyone who anybody from either of those households comes into contact with, which is obviously not nobody. Especially if you have school-aged children, or work in a public setting.
KevC86Icon...21-12-2020 @ 19:32 
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Rick said:
KevC86 said:
The trouble is the handshaking analogy isn't endangering anyone who doesn't consent to it.
I shake hands with "x".
I return home and socially distance from my neighbours as well as doing everything i can to minimise contact with others.


Your first sentence and your second sentence seen to me to be describing one person as two implausibly different people.


Both sentences are describing me.
I'm all for social distancing and trying to protect others but i decide what that means with minimal recourse to any government advice.
On Friday i shook hands with a few men I've worked with all year.
On Wednesday i will offer handshakes to two more colleagues.
I even took a bottle of hand sanitizer with me for that express purpose.




My actions have not meaningfully increased the risk to anyone other than my own and "x's" households.


And everyone who anybody from either of those households comes into contact with, which is obviously not nobody. Especially if you have school-aged children, or work in a public setting.



Ok, let's stick with the school aged children and follow it through.

My son attends a childcare setting with about 10 other kids.
We'll assume each of those kids shares their home with 2 parents and 1 other child of school age.
Most likely at least one of those parents is still attending some sort of work setting and that will bring them in to contact with (being conservative) a dozen other workers.
Add to that the 30+ kids the other sibling is coming in to contact with at school (I've yet to see a school managing to maintain social distancing across break times etc).

Thats almost 50 people per child. Gives us around 500 points of contact for my sons childcare (ignoring any relating to the childcare staff themselves).
I've raised that number from 500 to 506 (assuming we count just handshakes and ignore the fact that my work had me in contact with these and around a dozen others in the course of my job anyway).

Does that increase the risk? Of course, 506 is more than 500.
Does it meaningfully increase the risk? I'll strongly argue it does not.
AdamTIcon...21-12-2020 @ 19:46 
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KevC86 said:
The trouble is the handshaking analogy isn't endangering anyone who doesn't consent to it.
I shake hands with "x".
I return home and socially distance from my neighbours as well as doing everything i can to minimise contact with others.
My actions have not meaningfully increased the risk to anyone other than my own and "x's" households.
As an adult i feel i am within my remit to accept whatever risks i deem reasonable for me and my household.
Similarly if i invite someone in to my house/gym/garden against the rules this Christmas.
They have the intelligence and freedom of thought to decide if they accept that invitation.


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Paul_DIcon...21-12-2020 @ 20:43 
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Everyone that received the first smallpox vaccine in 1798 has died. Makes you think.....

#WakeUpSheeple

Sorry.... I’ve just read this thread and this seems apt. Hopefully the light humour is welcomed. If not. Lighten up... you’re posting a load of old balls on a forum primarily focused (well, initially at least) on strength training. Long live the good old days.
RickIcon...21-12-2020 @ 21:22 
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Post Edited: 21.12.2020 @ 21:28 PM by Rick
KevC86 said:

Does that increase the risk? Of course, 506 is more than 500.
Does it meaningfully increase the risk? I'll strongly argue it does not.


But it does increase the risk, for no purpose. I mean, you do you, but expect people to criticise.

I'd also point out, in fairness, that the behaviour you're describing is very different to that described by the member I originally responded to.
KevC86Icon...21-12-2020 @ 21:29 
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Rick said:
But it does increase the risk, for no purpose. I mean, you do you, but expect people to criticise.


There is a very definite purpose in a handshake.

But i can accept that not everyone will share my views on that and I'm comfortable enough with the fact people won't always agree with me on any given issue.

Happy holidays to all x
dannyboy73Icon...22-12-2020 @ 12:05 
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because i just enjoy winding you up

Rick said:
But it does increase the risk, for no purpose. I mean, you do you, but expect people to criticise.
I'd also point out, in fairness, that the behaviour you're describing is very different to that described by the member I originally responded to.
dannyboy73Icon...22-12-2020 @ 12:07 
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you actually get what i was saying about the handshake.

i wouldnt want to hake hands with anyone high risk or worried. all other, no issue and i retain myself and unchanged through a challenging year.

stay free eveyone and happy xmass.


quote]KevC86 said:
There is a very definite purpose in a handshake.
But i can accept that not everyone will share my views on that and I'm comfortable enough with the fact people won't always agree with me on any given issue.
Happy holidays to all x
AdamTIcon...22-12-2020 @ 12:11 
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dannyboy73 said:you actually get what i was saying about the handshake.

i wouldnt want to hake hands with anyone high risk or worried. all other, no issue and i retain myself and unchanged through a challenging year.

stay free eveyone and happy xmass.


quote]KevC86 said:
There is a very definite purpose in a handshake.
But i can accept that not everyone will share my views on that and I'm comfortable enough with the fact people won't always agree with me on any given issue.
Happy holidays to all x


Lol it's not like we are talking about going around shaking hands with pensioners

Ffs common sense says that anyone living with someone vulnerable will not shake hands

Your point (mine too), is I'm happy to shake anyones hand that WANTS to
RickIcon...22-12-2020 @ 12:30 
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dannyboy73 said:because i just enjoy winding you up


Normally children grow out of that at about fifteen. It's a good job I have plenty of patience, or this forum would have several fewer members by now.

Still, I'm glad you're claiming you're just a liar, not flagrantly irresponsible, it seems.
dannyboy73Icon...22-12-2020 @ 13:01 
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and it working very very well...

Rick said:
Normally children grow out of that at about fifteen. It's a good job I have plenty of patience, or this forum would have several fewer members by now.
Still, I'm glad you're claiming you're just a liar, not flagrantly irresponsible, it seems.
dannyboy73Icon...22-12-2020 @ 13:17 
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Post Edited: 22.12.2020 @ 13:24 PM by dannyboy73
also, not a liar at all, i hold my position.

what im struggling to understand though is what you are getting out of this?

why as a moderator, you havent locked these threads instead of taking an entrenched possition, swearing and belittling members is beyond me.




Rick said:
Normally children grow out of that at about fifteen. It's a good job I have plenty of patience, or this forum would have several fewer members by now.
Still, I'm glad you're claiming you're just a liar, not flagrantly irresponsible, it seems.

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