matthewvc | ![]() | ... | 27-01-2017 @ 21:26 |
![]() ‘downsizing’ Member 5704, 3414 posts SQ 280, BP 210, DL 320810.0 kgs @ 96.3kgs UnEq | PaulSavage said:All i will say is my advice to any dude that's serious about lifting is get a good woman behind you as it definitely makes a difference. No man is an island. lol sounds ever so kinky, 'pegging' is the term I believe | ||
Billytheold | ![]() | ... | 28-01-2017 @ 00:11 |
![]() Sugdens crazy old person. Member 4936, 7288 posts SQ 270, BP 155, DL 270695.0 kgs @ 100kgs UnEq | It takes 2 to tango. If there's a will there's a way period. | ||
aaron_lohan | ![]() | ... | 28-01-2017 @ 20:53 |
![]() Hasn't always been a bench press specialist Member 44, 1907 posts SQ 252.5, BP 220, DL 210682.5 kgs @ 83kgs Eq | Competing and going to world's every year since 2012 hasn't affected my relationship at all. I think you need to compartmentalize your life, me at home is different to me in comp. I never let a bad workout or run of bad workouts affect the rest of my life I did get obsessed but I didn't let it affect my day to day life. To maintain healthy relationships you can't let it alter how you behave with others. My partner would describe me as being obsessed but it shouldn't stop you from having normal relationships. | ||
LessThanLuke | ![]() | ... | 28-01-2017 @ 21:24 |
![]() his poor male ego must be crushed Member 883, 6251 posts SQ 290, BP 180, DL 420890.0 kgs @ 105kgs UnEq | Get a girlfriend that competes! | ||
jamiea | ![]() | ... | 28-01-2017 @ 21:32 |
![]() has perfected the anvil roll Member 353, 3292 posts SQ 230, BP 160, DL 275665.0 kgs @ 100kgs UnEq | Post Edited: 28.01.2017 @ 21:34 PM by jamiea Mine liked it when it suited her and the bragging rights having someone who competed in strongman but then used posting pictures of me on holiday in my shorts on fb against me. But I suppose the old saying break ups make bodybuilders is true I've never trained as hard or consistently in years although some of it might be subliminal as they don't like teachers having criminal records for gbh so I can't batter the guy she had the affair with so channel it into the weights | ||
KevC86 | ![]() | ... | 28-01-2017 @ 21:34 |
![]() Member 5141, 4496 posts SQ 300, BP 180, DL 350830.0 kgs @ 130kgs UnEq | jamiea said:Mine liked it when it suited her and the bragging rights having someone who competed in strongman but then used posting pictures of me on holiday in my shorts on fb against me. But I suppose the old saying break ups make bodybuilders is true I've never trained as hard or consistently in years although some of it might be subliminal as they don't like teachers having criminal records for gbh so I can't batter the guy she had the affair with I dont see why youd have any issue with the guy? Unless he was a friend or something then he owes you no loyalty. Cant blame him for taking what was offered to him. | ||
John | ![]() | ... | 31-01-2017 @ 16:58 |
#biggef Member 5263, 3492 posts SQ 260, BP 195, DL 260715.0 kgs @ 130kgs UnEq | jamiea said:Mine liked it when it suited her and the bragging rights having someone who competed in strongman but then used posting pictures of me on holiday in my shorts on fb against me. But I suppose the old saying break ups make bodybuilders is true I've never trained as hard or consistently in years although some of it might be subliminal as they don't like teachers having criminal records for gbh so I can't batter the guy she had the affair with so channel it into the weights Did he know you or know she was with you? If not kev is right.but I can kinda understand though. | ||
John | ![]() | ... | 31-01-2017 @ 17:00 |
#biggef Member 5263, 3492 posts SQ 260, BP 195, DL 260715.0 kgs @ 130kgs UnEq | LessThanLuke said:Get a girlfriend that competes! Can't do that they might be stronger ![]() | ||
slimsim | ![]() | ... | 31-01-2017 @ 17:12 |
My asshole is not watertight. Member 2926, 6051 posts SQ 217.5, BP 107.5, DL 225550.0 kgs @ 86kgs UnEq | John said: Did he know you or know she was with you? If not kev is right.but I can kinda understand though. Unless he's completely in the dark, which is unlikely, any guy messing with a married/taken women should know that he risks losing a few teeth. | ||
slimsim | ![]() | ... | 31-01-2017 @ 18:22 |
My asshole is not watertight. Member 2926, 6051 posts SQ 217.5, BP 107.5, DL 225550.0 kgs @ 86kgs UnEq | slimsim said: Unless he's completely in the dark, which is unlikely, any guy messing with a married/taken women should know that he risks losing a few teeth. agreed if you are trying to push things on with a woman you know is married then you are complicit in her affair and fair game to be subject of grief from husband and anyone else in his circle (i've messed around with a married woman so no moral superiority on my part - all i can advise is it ends in tears) | ||
Mikeneto | ![]() | ... | 31-01-2017 @ 18:26 |
End of an era. Member 4646, 1964 posts | Post Edited: 31.01.2017 @ 18:26 PM by Mikeneto jamiea said:Mine liked it when it suited her and the bragging rights having someone who competed in strongman but then used posting pictures of me on holiday in my shorts on fb against me. But I suppose the old saying break ups make bodybuilders is true I've never trained as hard or consistently in years although some of it might be subliminal as they don't like teachers having criminal records for gbh so I can't batter the guy she had the affair with so channel it into the weights Why did wearing shorts on holiday cause your breakup? Were they short shorts? | ||
scruffmcbuff | ![]() | ... | 31-01-2017 @ 18:36 |
Lovely ass Congrats. Member 5958, 2315 posts SQ 280, BP 170, DL 300750.0 kgs @ 138kgs UnEq | Mikeneto said: Why did wearing shorts on holiday cause your breakup? Were they short shorts? Im glad someone asked it. | ||
BaconWarrior | ![]() | ... | 31-01-2017 @ 21:33 |
**INSERT BACON TAGLINE** Member 3502, 1009 posts SQ 240, BP 157.5, DL 275672.5 kgs @ 110kgs UnEq | I've definitely transitioned into taking a more flexible approach since going from banging randoms to having actual relationships. Also, much like aaron_lohan I practice compartmentalization with it too, I don't talk to my partner about lifting unless she brings it up, the same with anyone in my life who doesn't though. Plus she definitely enjoys that I have something else going on in my life than work/ pub/ tv/ social media. | ||
kennybaby | ![]() | ... | 02-02-2017 @ 11:06 |
![]() Member 2027, 125 posts SQ 175, BP 120, DL 250545.0 kgs @ 88kgs UnEq | Talking about powerlifting is the same as talking to her about the LBW rule, the off-side rule .. pointless .. but don't get too much hassle so far. That might change soon as I have a plan to put my new gym in a section of the dining room as it's got a solid concrete floor where my alternate hasn't .. just 8ft x 4ft with platform and rack on top of platform.. hardly unreasonable I think | ||
kennybaby | ![]() | ... | 02-02-2017 @ 18:52 |
![]() Member 2027, 125 posts SQ 175, BP 120, DL 250545.0 kgs @ 88kgs UnEq | kennybaby said:Talking about powerlifting is the same as talking to her about the LBW rule, the off-side rule .. pointless .. but don't get too much hassle so far. That might change soon as I have a plan to put my new gym in a section of the dining room as it's got a solid concrete floor where my alternate hasn't .. just 8ft x 4ft with platform and rack on top of platform.. hardly unreasonable I think If she wont let you have half the dining room for so noble a cause you need to ask if she is really committedto the relationship. | ||